🧩 “You never listen!” – Words that echo in boardrooms and living rooms alike.
🔍 After sharing the power of the Left-Hand Column (LHC) in my previous post, let me reveal a framework that’s been battle-tested across multiple global organizations, diverse teams, and complex matrix structures.
🌉 I call it the “BRIDGE Framework” for LHC:
B – Begin with Self 🪞
Record your own left column first. What are YOU not saying? Start with self-awareness before seeking it in others.
R – Recognize Patterns 🔄
Notice recurring thoughts in your left column. They often reveal deep-seated beliefs and automatic responses.
I – Investigate Impact 🎯
How is your left column affecting decisions, relationships, and results? The gap between thoughts and words creates ripples.
D – Dialogue, Don’t Debate 🤝
Create conditions where left columns can safely emerge. Remember – every confrontation is a failed conversation.
G – Generate Alternatives 💡
For every left column thought, craft three different ways to express it constructively.
E – Embrace Discomfort 🌱
Growth happens in the space between comfort and anxiety. Stay there.
📋 Here’s the framework in action:
RIGHT COLUMN: “Let’s proceed with the timeline as planned.”
LEFT COLUMN: “This timeline will burn out my team.”
⚡ BRIDGE Application:
• Begin: “I notice I’m concerned about team wellbeing”
• Recognize: “I often worry about team burnout”
• Investigate: “My silence might lead to attrition”
• Dialogue: Create a safe space to discuss capacity
• Generate: Three ways to raise the concern
• Embrace: The discomfort of timeline negotiations
💫 Having applied this through organizational transformations and cultural shifts, I’ve seen its power in:
– Strategic leadership teams
– Cross-functional projects
– Critical stakeholder discussions
– High-stakes negotiations
– Personal relationships
🔑 The transformation happens when we BRIDGE the gap between our thoughts and words.
🔮 Stay tuned for the final post where I’ll reveal the most surprising place where this framework created breakthrough results. Hint: It involves a critical organizational merger that almost failed.
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